He broke up with me for his ex girlfriend but still says he loves me?
What Guys Said 1
Hes playing with your emotions.
Hes stringing you along. How can you not see that? He says he's confused, yet he's dating another woman? Clearly he's not confused.
Stop talking to him. If he texts you, don't ever reply to him again. Stop allowing him to control and manipulate you with the bullsh*t he says. If he really "loved" you. Then distance wouldn't be a problem.
I used to date a girl that was 45 min away, and I had no issue driving to see her. So this excuse he has given you is complete bull.
Don't ever speak to him again. He's just toying with you.
What Girls Said 1
I'm sorry for your pain and what he has done to you.
First I'm a firm believer that too many people claim to "love" each other when actually they are in lust. It takes a loooooooooong time to truly be in love with someone. It also takes many relationships and being older to realize this.
A red flag should've been that you both are each others rebound relationships, we've all been there. If someone can jump from one relationship to another then it is more likely they will do that to you.
This guy is getting the best of both worlds. He's got at least 2, maybe more, women just hanging out waiting for him to be available. I'd be willing to bet he was telling his ex everything he's telling you now while he was dating you. This way he can jump around to whomever he wants while 'he figures things out'. This is not love. I'm sorry but it isn't.
The best thing you can do for yourself, which will be the hardest, is to cut off all contact. No texting, talking, seeing each other, Facebook, twitter, etc. He has hurt you and will continue to do so if you let him. If you do this you will have some horrible days. You should spend as much time with friends and family to distract yourself. And use one of them to unload all of this stuff on. Get on here and complain about him whatever. Do not find another guy to latch on to and do not go running back to him. This boy does not nor has ever loved you. If he did you wouldn't feel like you do right now. I'm so sorry for your pain. I hope you get through this having learned something about yourself and what you want in your next relationship.
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