Most Helpful Girl
He is a jerk! Stay away from him. He obviously doesn't respect you because if he did he would respect your wishes not to have contact. He does these things because he doesn't care about you or your feelings. It is his way of being in control of you. Your job is to make sure you don't give it to him. He wants to keep you hooked because whoever he is with is of interest no more. He is a LOSER! If you go back to him you will get hurt again. TRUST ME he didn't text you on accident. Given your history he CLEARLY did it on purpose. My advice is to get your girls together and ask them to encourage you and keep you busy. Sorry you have an annoying ex. I have one too, but I am now at the point where I see clearly why I didn't want to be with him and don't want anything to do with him. I don't respond and I don't care about him at all. There is a new man in my life who is amazing. IF you give yourself time you will get where I am. You are strong, beautiful and deserve the best. You will be fine. Take this time to focus on yourself, what you have learned from this experience and what you will do differently next time. Grow and blossom.