Is he gonna break up with me :( help!

My boyfriend is mad at me,he never gets mad ..he only been mad at me once and it wasn't good.i need help,he has not text/call or talk to me since Monday and it has been killing me and he won't tell me what I did he never talks about his feelings,he just said we cool that he still loves me yet still when I text me he's so cold just says hi and never responds I seem desperate and it's not looking good I hate how I been acting..I think that's the reason he is acting like a kid because I keep saying sorry and talking to him.i asked him if he wants to break up with me and he said no but I don't know I think he gonna break up with me,what do I do? And should I just let him calm down and stop calling and texting until he is ready to talk to me?


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  • my 1st opinion is.. you did something wrong.. maybe insulted him or his friends or hurt his ego. We guys generally don't say what's wrong because we feel stupid to point out the obvious... now carefully remember everything that happened since the last time he was happy, maybe you will find out your mistake. if you do, repair it.. We don't want hollow sorries, be serious about what you did wrong.. don't act like a typical stupid girl.. and he will love you back. HOPE THAT HELPS.

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    • Well I know what I did wrong and I told him sorry,he said we good but he is not acting like it,should I just stop calling him and texting until he gets over his madness and calm down.

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    • and yes.. even though the anonymous girl said that he will come around if you stop calling, I seriously believe that.. those people who react quickly come around.. he's pretty much looking out for a new girl.. he just wants to calmly dump you.. if you care for him even a bit, show him that you have cut all contact with your ex, unfrnd him on fb if possible. otherwise I would suggest you forget about him.. the vase has been broken. can't be fixed now

    • this is good advice and I hope she can salvage this like you said by not talking to the ex especially telling your boyfriend you are not going to talk to him then turn around and do it. Stop it or you will lose him you can only put up with so much.

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  • correction: even though the anonymous girl said that he will come around if you stop calling, I seriously doubt* that

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  • leave him alone & hopefully you wil come around. just tell him that if its something you did that you're really sorry then let him be. it might be something else that is bothering him. good luck

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  • I would say give him some time..if he does have feelings for you and want this relationship to work out, he'll contact you.

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  • that is definitely what I would do. Just cease all contact with him and let him work out whatever it is that is wrong, because like you said for sure it doesn't help to keep calling him it can push him away.

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    • Ok..I'll try that.but what if he really never talks to me again..it's so hard not texting him

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    • oh OK that's not so bad as long as you cool down a little and learn to trust him and show you are a cool girl. Tell him again you love him and you are sorry then lay low for a few days. He will come around. :)

    • Ok..I'll try that .thankx a lot

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