so this girl that has a boyfriend is being flirty to me... I'm 18 and she's 17, we're in the same class and we're friends (although I didn't know her 2 months ago)
some examples: we were sitting next to each other talking and she said we were gonna organize the school prom together this year, it would be better. I laughed and agreed and then she told me something like "but don't think you're bringing all your friends, it's just the 2 of us". same class hour she started massaging my back cause I complained I was bored.
I feel like I constantly catch her looking at me...
I also added her on Facebook some days ago, the second day she connected and immediately talked to me. she explained she was using her dad's mobile to get on fb and couldn't stay long. she connected 5 times for about 15 minutes that day and each time she started talking to me...
what to think about this? could it just be friendliness? could you do this unconsciously, not realizing you're being flirty?
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Sounds like she likes you more than friendship. You should see as you would as it was a guy. So... carefully. She may not have known she was interested in girls until she met you. So she is excited to be connecting with you. Honesty is massive. You need to decide what direct you are taking. If you are bi-curious it is best not to tell anyone just yet . But you will need a sit down with her and feel her out with some questions and from there you can nip it bud, no pun intended. Main thing is approach with a relaxed open attitude. That is the mature way to handle it. It just between you and her.