After breaking up; he was cheating all along

I was with my ex for two years and the last 6 months of our relationship we were having major issues and arguments.

After I broke things off I came to find out that he was in a relationship with a co-worker of his for the last four months of our

relationship. This has really hurt me and made me angry.

But am also confused because I did break up with him why should I still care?


Most Helpful Guy

  • It's a shitty feeling regardless. All you can do is give it time


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What Guys Said 3

  • It's because you had feelings for him before you ever knew about it... Getting rid of that isn't as simple. You will eventually stop caring, depends how easily you can move on.

  • You care because you feel betrayed, as you only started to move on.

    At least you did the right choice by dumping him.

    Hang on, it will pass.

  • Because finding out he cheated is just adding insult to injury.


What Girls Said 1

  • Caring about what happened doesn't necessarily mean that you still care about him. The fact that he cheated on you and you only found out afterward makes perfect sense for you to get angry. Hell if I found out my ex had been cheating on me, I would go and beat his sorry ass even now when I'm in a healthy relationship with someone else. Feeling betrayed is normal.


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