I'm now recovering from my 'boyfriend' pulling his vanishing act.
To make this long story short, we started off as friends and gradually became lovers. Out of all three of my relationships, I decided to fully open my heart to him. He did the same at least I thought he did. He told me that he felt we were soul mates and silly as this sounds, I thought he was more than just that (twin flame). His friends likes me, his mom and neighbor said he should marry me and everything seemed great.
Then he started drifting. He told me he felt he isn't ready for a relationship because of his issues he was dealing with. He said that we should take a break. No hooking up with anyone or anything. Then he magically disappeared.
I cried for weeks and I'm happy to say that I didn't cry for two days in a row. I'm just upset that he knew I didn't want a relationship. He was the one who pursued me. I told him please don't hurt me. Please don't disappear on me like my ex-boyfriend. Well, here I am now.
I'm curious as to who pulled the vanishing act? What was your reasoning? How did you feel when you did it? Did you regret it? Did you come back to apologize?
My ex before this one reappeared and I have forgiven him because I feel that holding a grudge is a waste of time. I have no interest in taking him or my current ex back, but I don't mind being friends.
Thank you for reading and answering =).
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We do that when we don't really give a f***. We do that to those who are here for our amusement, not those we really care about. I don't even think you should be friends with such a person. As long as someone like that is in your life, they will seek to destroy you.0