Fake book account to see if boyfriend would cheat.

this afternoon my best friend told me she made a fake account to see if my boyfriend would react ( I agreed) and to my big surprise he did

He kept talking..Sending pictures of himself

Can't believe it this makes me sick

When my friend told him at the end of the conversation that it was her and that she wanted to check if he wasn't a cheater and a liar, he told her I already knew it was her and that he wanted to see how stupid she was! what to believe?

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  • I don't think you should believe that he knew. Although, if he did know, you also have to wonder how much he knew.

    For all you know, your friend could have actually asked for your permission to let him cheat, but that aside:

    You should clearly break up. Neither of you sound like you are ready for a relationship. You used your friend to possibly seduce and manipulate him, as shadowscapes said, and he either failed the test and proved he would have cheated, or he proved that he would do anything to make a point.

    You clearly don't trust each other, and without that then what do you have anyway?

    The two of you need to have a serious talk.

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    • he was hit on by someone other than his partner and reciprocated, ohh the manipulative mind control. it was like a total captain ginyu body switch.

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    • Probably not, but I just think it's pretty unhealthy how out of their way thy went to do this. Yes, it's OK to not always fully trust someone, but this seems like she had no trust at all. Granted, her distrust was not misplaced, but nothing about this relationship seems healthy.

    • rather than believing things based on emotional whims, currently the best way humans can make sound decisions is by testing its merit, gathering the evidence, and go from there. I truly understand where you're coming from, but why is it that in this particular context people are against said methods?

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What Guys Said 16

  • He's lying. What he said is what anyone (who is lying) would say.

    There's no way he could have possibly known (unless your friend shared some personal info that gave her away) and that is unlikely is she was spying.

    He's a loser plain and simple. Ditch him and find a good man. A good man is a man who wants nothing more than to be with you because you indeed are the key to this man's happiness :)

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    • They are immature and wasting time trying to find dirt on some guy. They both need to grow up and actually wait for something to happen . They are immature like you who runs around trolling on everyone's answers instead of being concerned about your own answer .

    • I wouldn't say troll, but rather he doesn't circle jerk like most of the people here.

  • Yeah, he wasn't joking. He actually fell for it.

    But does her test (which is essentially a sting op.) fall within the lines of entrapment? link

    Essentially, did your friend simply just present an opportunity for him to send her pics and he did all of the legwork. Or did she in anyway attempt to persuade or influence his decision.

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    • Upvote for putting Mayor Rob Ford as your avatar. The mans funny as sin.

      No I did not eat that woman's pussy! I get plenty to eat at home! I laughed so hard when he said that (or something like it) in an interview. The guy literally has no filter. Then when he knocked over that council woman in city hall. I laughed until it hurt.

  • So if he did know all along, how would he be showing your friend is stupid by acting like he would cheat? That sounds like a desperate excuse to save his ass.

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  • All I can say is if I ever found out someone was manipulating me in such a way I'd cut them loose without hesitation.

    Enjoy the outcome because you created it.

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    • yeah. it was probably a rigged outcome. it depends on the chat logue. if she messaged him and said nothing sexual or suggestive, and he pursued her, that's one thing. but if she in any way tried to coax him to go along with it, it's her fault.

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    • Judging from your previous said beliefs that probably wouldn't be such a bad idea.

      "You didn't allow me to cheat in an organic fashion!? My every action controlled by a damn wizard!"

      Pretty sound argument!

    • "It opposes and fights, on closer inspection, not the ideal itself but only it's exteriors, it's guise and masquerade, its temporary dogmatic hardening and stiffening, and by denying what is exoteric in this ideal, it liberates what life is in it."

  • I'm sorry but both you and your friend are immature idiots.

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  • i don't know why people get so upset with the method you used.

    wait, yes I do.

    they know very well that its an easy way to get caught up, and also that they could easily fall for it too.

    humans are polygamous creatures at heart. you did nothing wrong.

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    • What is this nonsense you speak about polygamy? You've no clue what you're talking about and your advice is garbage dude. That's just your opinion. Biased much? Some of us actually prefer no sex or relationships at all. And those types are called Asexuals. Not everything is black and white. There is some grey matter in between.

    • i don't care to address such atypical minorities. the vast majority of humans are polygamous or flirt right along the edge of it. we don't know for certain if he would have had full on sex with someone other than his partner, but he - like so many others - sure as hell walked the tightrope.

  • Well no matter what happens, the two of you don't need to be together.

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  • Lol. Whether he's a cheater or not, you've just destroyed your own relationship.

    The lack of trust on both sides...what's left in a relationship?

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    • It seems like everyone is missing the point here. He must have done something that validated this type of response from her. He gave her reasons for not trusting him. Then she found out that she was right in feeling that way. We don't know the whole story do we?

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    • "you made me do sexually suggestive things to other women! you gave me the oppotunity to cheat rather than it happening organically!"

      sounds legit!

    • Whether the boyfriend is loyal or not is not my concern.

  • LOL most guys would and in the end you would again complain about not finding a good guy.

    it is better to not engage in such a act and trust your partner

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  • LOL!

    ONE OF MY EX'S DID THIS! Not her friend, it was my ex. And I could tell it was her, because of the way she was typing to me, and the types of questions she would ask me. LOLOLOL I threw it in her face that night after we meet up that she's a lump for even trying that with me. And she started crying and said she was sorry for doing that. LOL

    Your boyfriend probably knew it was you/your friend. Depending on what types of questions she was asking, or the way she was typing. I highly doubt he's lying to you that he knew it was you guys.

    I suggest you believe your boyfriend moving forward and stop allowing your "friends" to test and see if he's true to you or not. For you might lose him. Plus, your friends probably want your relationship to go sour, especially if they are the "drama/jealous" type.

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  • Sounds like she wants him and did that so you guys would break up. If you agreed to that and I found out I'd dump you.

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  • she gave in too soon you'll never know now ! He is on to your deviousness

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  • so you are mad that he talked to another girl on the internet?

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  • someone was a little bored and wanted to goad him into some unneeded drama, hmmm?

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  • You and your friend are beyond sad.

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  • You and your friend need to grow up.

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    • You know, messages like these are considered spam. You are not offering any advice what so ever. Just a lame ass answer to get likes from some obviously lame ass people.

What Girls Said 9

  • If you felt the need to go through all that trouble to find out if he was cheating, then you already knew deep down that he was and just needed proof. No person in a happy relationship does this kind of immature foolishness. Neither of you are happy with each other. The question of, "is he cheating?" is irrelevant at this point because whether he is or isn't, the relationship has trust issues on both sides now. This was a horrible idea.

    Sidenote: Your "friend" sounds jealous and may want your boyfriend, no one puts this much effort into someone else's relationship unless they will be benefiting form the downfall in some way. Watch her.

    Overall, yes he's lying. If he knew it was her, he would have NOT gone along with it and would've been on his best behavior. Then he would be proving a point that you didn't trust him and make you feel horrible for doing all of this. He obviously had no clue and fell for the "trap" you created. Now the question is, will you break up with him after this? You strike me as the type to stay with him after convincing yourself that he knew all along and he proved a point by cheating on you with you by accident. You both need to end this, and if you don't have the willpower, I hope he gathers enough to do it himself. This is a poisonous relationship for you both.

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  • I don't believe him, particularly since both you and your friend felt the possibility was there enough to check. However maybe next time you could recognise that you don't trust this guy and end the relationship since you should never be with someone you don't trust

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  • 1) she did that so you guys could break up. why would she purposely want to see if he was a cheater? she's NOT dating him?

    2) she's jealous of your relationship

    3) he gave in too soon, and got caught..so lied

    4) he really knew it was her.

    go with your gut. either way, its not your friends problem to prove YOUR boyfriend is a cheater

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  • OMG he's totally lying...he took the bait and didn't know what the hell to say for himself when confronted. What wouldve been even better is if she had got him to meet her and you walked up. CLASSIC!

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  • Be careful with this. First of all if you suspect he is a cheater he probably is... But what makes you think he is cheating? Sometimes, setting a guy or gal up is not the real truth...

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  • You should probably end it. Not because he was sending her pictures and talking to her, because YOU do not trust him.

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  • Believe your friend. HE is a blatant cheater! Leave leave leave before you are hurt hurt hurt!

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  • he was just trying to cover his ass when he was exposed but as mentioned she should have kept it going for a month to see how far her would actually go

    dump him he's obviously lying, and I don't know what's up with people saying its a different thing if she persuaded him to cheat because he could easily have just said no I have a girlfriend stop messaging me or blocked her.

    ad the other dumb comment "e may have never cheated on you before this, and you not only created, but gave him the opportunity to cheat." why would she want to be with someone who has no issue cheating anyway? she's not going to want to wait for him to create his own oppotunity to cheat on her she wants a guy that won't cheat opportunity presented or not

    i agree that your friend might have done this maliciously hoping o break you two up out of jealously or something

    i also think what you did was wrong, you don't have any trust in him to let your friend do this

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  • Wow, I can't believe you would do that to yourself. . . You know, he may have never cheated on you before this, and you not only created, but gave him the opportunity to cheat. Your relationship is over. You and your friend need to cut that type of bs out.

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    • It was but a mere test. And there is nothing wrong with testing someone. And it sounds like he failed miserably. Would you want to be someone who isn't thoroughly satisfied with you alone? A good person doesn't cheat to matter what. And it's not just about ethics. In all my relationships each one has gotten ALL of my attention. I never did cheat, not once. Not because I couldn't. It was because I cared about them. Opportunities were there, but I chose to ignore them. Hope this helps.

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