I've gotten closer with this guy over the past few months. We've been hanging out and have gotten to be pretty good friends and I really like him a lot and would love to be more than friends. The thing is I'm pretty sure he isn't over his ex-girlfriend. They took a break because of distance, but I think they may get back together when she comes back to town. And on top of that I am kind of friends (not really close) with his ex. So it would probably be best if I move on, but I don't really know how to do that or if that really is the best choice? I've had crushes on guys before, but nothing like this where I have really gotten to know him and like his personality this much.
- Yes, you should move onVote A
- No, you should keep pursuing him and see what happensVote B
- Other, please explainVote C
- I just want to see the resultsVote D
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If he began dating you while he is hung up on his ex-girlfriend, then there is an extremely high probability that he will end the relationship with you if she decided she wanted to reconcile with him. He is emotionally unavailable so anyone that chooses to date him in such a state is nonsensically choosing to be a rebound. It's simply a bad investment.
For now, I think it's wise for you to move on.