So my boyfriend and I haven't talking that much. This has been going on for maybe a little over a month. We barely communicate. I most ly get one to two words out of him. I'm trying to be undllrstanding, considering how he works more now , how he's always ( or so he tells me) on the go. How he has so much to stress about ( school and work, doctor bills, moving, etc).
I feel a little selfish because I wish that I had a bit more attention from him. we barely and don't see each at all. I feel bad for thinking that if he really wanted to spending time with/ talk to me, he would . That I wish that he check up on me, see what's going on with me.
Then again, I feel like he's using all of that as a excuse. I have brought up taking a break or just breaking up, but He didn't want tpoto. So idk. I do care about everything that's going and and am. trying my best to be. there, but its hard because he's not really talking to me.
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Neither one of you is wrong. If you need more time in the relationship you are in there's nothing wrong with that. But you may need to find someone that needs the same thing. He sounds content to have a very little contact.
You can try to talk about this and compromise. Like you need one date night a week and one text or phone call a day or something. It's not a lot but it's something he should have time for. If he can't do that then you need to learn to live with this behavior or break up.1
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