I had to go back home for a few days, and I'm a bit surprised and disappointed that he hasn't texted as frequently as he did before when we were still together. What gives? Does that mean he's not into me as he seemed or is there possibly another reason why he's not getting in contact with me? He seemed happy that I'll be back there in a few days' time, but I don't get why he isn't as communicative as he was before. He's a soldier, so I don't know if that plays a role.
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from personal experience, if he continues to be hot and cold with you, he's not worth your time. after I had a bad incident with a guy going hardcore hot and cold on me (and me trying endlessly to make it work), I just stopped and then about 2 months later I found my current boyfriend who was consistently affectionate, never hot and cold, he didn't confuse me or cause me unnecessary stress or pain - he did anything to stop it
honestly, hot and cold guys aren't worth the time of day - I believe they mostly do it for quick gratification in seeing the girl want to talk to him after him going m.i.a. on them
but it also could be he is super busy with family, or something came up
again, only take what I said if he really continues to go hot and cold - you'll know when he's not worth your time if he causes you unnecessarily stress all the time because you don't deserve that, no girl does.
hopefully I'm wrong about him being hot and cold and something just came up that is taking up his time. good luck(: