He came back in my life a couple months ago but basically did the same crap. I finally kicked him out for good, removing him from everything and luckily he hasn't contacted me since. I don't think he will this time, but my problem is I can't get over him. I want to get over him so bad but I don't want to start online dating. ( did that it doesn't work) I have a hard time meeting guys and as for friends I don't really have any. I throw myself into work and hobbies but nothing seems to work. He moves on like its nothing and I'm sitting here all pathetic. He's had 3 girls after me and I've had no one. How can I move on from him?
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I think the problem is you haven't been able to have enough time to get over him entirely. despite having broken up a year ago he's been in and out of your life. so emotionally you start to move on and then fall back and because he may tell you things will be different you allow yourself to reconsider the relationship.
I don't think you should date yet. I think you need to really just allow yourself to move forward. As I always say when it comes to moving on, you need to simply lean on friends, family and loved ones. Re-assert your independence and once you've done that you'll find that you can see yourself with someone.
the fact that he's "had" three girls doesn't really mean much. He could simply be rebounding with them, he could be just filling a void, but you are you and since he doesn't seem all that genuine in his actions over the past year it doesn't surprise me that he would have been with people.
Simply focus on you, really really avoid all contact with him.