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You know what? I hope he does take him because even though he's in jail, he still seems like a more responsible parent.
You're not going to get a procedure done that could improve his health because you're too scared to get it done? Really? If you don't get that boy circumcised it could lead to all sorts of infections. Your "baby daddy" (I hate that term, since when is it OK to raise a kid with a broken family) should be angry. You said you were going to do it and you didn't.
So do the right thing, get your kid circumcised and ffs, let his dad be a dad.