I ask because I talk to girls everyonce in a while, but they never seem to be interested in anything other than friends, or small talk. I am a big guy but I'm losing it so it's not something I get hung up on. My friends say that it shouldn't matter, that I'm not a bad looking guy. Don't get me wrong, I've had girlfriends, I was engaged, but we split earlier this year.
I wasn't interested in meeting, or even willing to "do work" to get laid, because I wanted to give myself time to get over my ex. Moving on wasn't something I was trying to rush you know, I loved her, probably still do, loved to experiences we had, so I was trying to rush her out you know.
Recently, like the last two weeks or so, I have been wanting a relationship again. I slept with a co-worker a few times about a month ago, but she understood I didn't want a relationship with her.
It seems the girls that do spark my interest aren't attracted to me. I realize that it could have something to do with my body, I'm like 5'8 260LBS.
I don't really know what I'm looking for, maybe some advice on how to seem more open, or interesting maybe? In the past I just went with the conversions, and my ex's were interested...I had to move back to my hometown whenever my ex-fiancee and I split.
It's funny because I have lived in my hometown off and on after graduating high school for 2 or so years. I haven't found a girlfriend in my hometown since I was in the 11th grade.
I'm just kind of lost about what it is about me that makes women only see me as a friend. The women that interest me anyway.