Take this senario
Despite it being LDR and pretend you didn't care about that factor. if you really liked the girl what would you do different.
you met on a tour you hit it off sleep together acted like you were together for a couple of weeks. Then you've gone your separate ways kept in touch via fb messaging and chatting, she's back home in the same country as you diff city though, but your still travelling. you as the male have done most of the contacting and mentioned her to visit you in your home town and to visit her in her hometown and also a visit to the town in between you.
would you say keen, or how would you act if you only wanted sex from the girl and nothing more.
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In this scenario, I would invite her to meet in a town adjacent to my hometown to keep my personal life: friends, family, address, etc., away from our personal situation, if my sole intent is to sleep with her.
The same would apply if I visited her in her city. I wouldn't do the wine and dine thing, nor would I extensively invest in getting to know her or what she is about. I would simply come to her town to get to the point as soon as possible, then I would part ways shortly after.