So long story short.I dated a girl for 2 years...fell in love and real fast.She was my everything.Well with her work she was always so busy.Things never added up to me...check her Facebook.She lied to me about everything she did for 2 years.Work,friends,bars,clubs,sporting events..I mean honestly everything.So I kind of got over that and just let it go...clearly you can not be with a liar.Especially a liar who claims to now have lied but I mean its her Facebook.lol...WELL I started talking to a girl on a dating website.What are the chances that this girl actually worked with my ex for 2 years.like very unreal...still in shock about that.Come to find out my ex actually had a whole different full blown out relationship with the guy that worked there also...I know move on she's your ex.Who cares...etc.Any advice.Anyone else have to go through the same thing.Im not the kind of guy to just go find another girl to make me happy.Im on the site more so to just meet new people and get some new friends.She met with me last night only to make sure that I wouldn't send mine and her conversation to the new guy...Although she did cry a river and say she was sorry and she will always be miserable because of it...To me there is no excuse.You do not do that to people...im tempted to send the conversation to the new guy where she clearly says she's a fuck up and worthless and everyone is better off withouth her.Also she did admitt to cheating and lieing...Idk.Any thoughts on that...i kind of only want to do it because this new guy has everything and can make her dreams come true.(long story).So I feel like maybe once in her life someone should mess up her big plans and make her feel like she makes everyone else feel...?
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I'm sorry you're going through this. Your beef is with her, not with him. I'm sure many people wouldn't agree with me, but I wouldn't do it. You'll look like the psycho ex-boyfriend because you don't know what she's telling the other guy. There's really nothing to gain by trying to destroy someone else. Let her live with the guilt and go through the karma. It'll come back to her, no doubt.
As for you...be done and done. Just do you. The best way to get back at someone is to move on. You say you were together for 2 years. I believe she'll try to come back...they always do when you least expect it.0