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Unexpected crushes are the best kind..but it's just as well you blew it, office romances rarely work out and get really sticky when they don't.
It's OK to be in love, but he's made it clear you should try to keep that to yourself.
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I think the first step, which will be hard, is to shift the focus from him to you. The problem is that you are waiting for him to do/be something for you. That's not fair to him. Instead I would focus on whether you are really in love with him, or the fantasy of him. Ride the wave of embarrassment, I know it sucks, but be honest with him and yourself about it, and then act with him the way you want to with no expectations. That will take A LOT of practice, and baby steps. I say this because I know what waiting for a unrequited love feels like, and nothing is ever gained from waiting around for them to fall for you. If you two truly get along well, this will all pass, and you will find a way to be back in good terms. The more you distract yourself with fantasies of him, the harder it will be to fix your actual relationship. Also, give up being in control of the outcome. It is what it is. Once you do that, the conclusion is usually exactly what you need. At least that's my 2 cents.
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