What is the statute of limitations on boyfriends trying to hook up with old girlfriends?
What Guys Said 1
to me the problem isn't whether or not he is havingt sex with other people. the problem is that he seems to be living a life aside from you. dating sites, lots of back and forth with the ex including trying to set up dates. To me this is just stuff I wouldn't want in my relationship and if he has a good relationship with the ex and it is purely platonic then why isn't it on the down low? like why doesn't he just state that she is a friend so it doesn't seem like he's trying to sort of keep this whole relationship a secret.
I would definitely need clarity on this situation because to me it reeks of a guy/person who, even if they haven't had sex or met up in a while, is kind of double dipping
What Girls Said 1
You are in a difficult situation...it depends on what the issues are that you have been having. If he has good enough qualities, I would try VERY hard to get past this because there doesn't seem to be many great single guys out there!
If you looked at his email ( which I have done before ) that tells me that something was making you suspect that something wasn't right...if you want it to work with him, maybe you guys could do some therapy? Does he know that you contacted her yet? Men do not usually like that sort of thing...that may cause some issues between you :-(
Good luck...I know how hard it is to trust...and they want to act like we are the ones with the problems because we cannot trust...but they give us the reasons not to trust...
if you have gotten in hot water with him about contacting him, I would definitely approach it from the what is good for the goose is good for the gander standpoint ( Instead of the victim standpoint ) And remain as confident as you can...because this could quickly turn around and make you look like a person with no self-confidence and that will only make things worse... good luck!
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