Hi guys/ girls, I have been with the same guy for almost 4 years(February 4 is the anniversary). he cheated on me once back 2 years ago. And to this day, I'm still afraid of him doing this again. No matter how much I know he won't but I'm still afraid. Only now because the girl he cheated on me with is NOW in our school. Were seniors and she is a freshmen… How do I not be afraid anymore?
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Learn to trust him. Its hard to do but that's the only way that you'll get over it. Its perfectly fine to be scared that he's going to hurt you again but there's limits to that. When it interferes with your relationship and causes issues then that's when its a problem.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE