I need to sort this before 2013 ends, I want this man so badly but.
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Just my opinion, don't feel any need to actually go through with this.
Many guys have confidence problems, or commitment issues, etc. In other words, there are many reasons for men to hesitate when it comes to women. I have been on the opposite end of this situation before, and I can relate to him. You either need to find out his side of the story, or you need to wear the pants and make the move yourself. There's no need for you to follow the pointless tradition of guy ask girl. You can approach him about it and express your feelings. Communicate. That is one of my favorite words when it comes to relationships. Unless there is a clear flow of information between the two persons involved, the relationship will never come to fruition.
Again, please don't feel any need to commit to any part of my suggestion. It is only that; a suggestion. Thank you for reading this.
p.s. - Stay away from drunks.
"the one I actually want"...hmmm, if this were really true would you have slept with HIS friend- that does not sound good. You will have to confront him as he is now worse off than before. Speaking from a shy guys perspective he was probably worried about messing things up with you, to the point where he got so worked up that he couldn't make the move and now that he knows that you have hooked up with his friend, he will be even less likely to make any sort of move.
If he really is the one you want then you're going to have to convince him that you are not the type of girl that sleeps with his friends, just becuase he was slow about making a move. You said you have tried in vain- how exactly have you tried if you don't mind me asking? Just wondering because some of us guys need it spelt out for us at times :)
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