He is very decent and caring; I don't want to lose him but don't want to hurt him either. What should I do?!
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You'll have to make a tough choice. I know you've been hurt by the last relationship, and the prospect of a new guy is both exciting and scary. I wouldn't be moving so fast toward another relationship at this point. If this guy is genuine, and looking for something real, he would understand if you told him you want to take things slow. On the other hand, if something is off about him or his actions, break it off as soon as possible. I certainly can understand wanting to find someone to be with forever, but the truth is that is a very hard thing to do. You have plenty of time accomplish some other things in your life, and still have time to meet, date, marry, and have a family with a special man. In order to get what you want you have to never settle for less than you deserve. That means its OK to date and take time to know somebody, but not do anything you don't want to or feel pressured to be with someone that isn't right for you. In an ideal world everyone would make their intentions known from the start, but in the world today you have to be careful about who you give your heart to. Don't be afraid to take a chance with a new person, but don't be afraid to break it off if its not what you want.