If it was meant to be he would have?

proposed? We have been together for 7 years, and he had to move for his job. He asked me to come with him, but I declined unless he proposed. I am at the stage in life where I can't just get up and leave, I want to settle down and start a family. he is not ready for marriage... therefore, I will not move with him...

if he really loves me and cared he would have proposed? after 7 years...


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  • Not big on ultimatums but if he hasn't proposed after 7 years, he never will.


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  • If he's your age, he may not be ready for marriage yet, even with your long relationship. Did you phrase it as an ultimatum or just as a desire? He might get out there and realize how much he misses you, but you'll have pressured him into marrying when he didn't really want to.

    I don't know what to say beyond that.

  • Hmm ... see I don't get why he hasn't in 7 years. That's a long time.

    Just to let you know, when you "propose", that means you'll end up as Fianc├ęs, not as a married couple straight away.


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