So blah blah blah we were together for a year then he realized that he wanted some girl who smoked weed and drank. Unlike me. I was his first girl. But he told me he already has someone after a month. Come on I'm here just taking my time crying. Working on me. Remember ing the good timea. Enjoying myself. While he has another chick. It hurts alot
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What Reynier said is kinda right. Though some more factors to throw in is how long you two were dating, how you broke up and why you broke up.
I had a girlfriend who asked me out. Thing is we didn't really talk much (so I never really bonded to her), she never really answered me and she never really seemed like she wanted me. It was weird that she asked me out seeming really interested and then would immediately grow distant but things happen. We broke up 4 months into it and I was kinda over it quickly because I didn't feel bonded to her. I ended up dating someone else a week or two later, not to hurt my ex but so I could just move forward with my life.
The thing is guys don't put as much emotional investment into a girl like girls generally do to guys. The main reason for this is to not appear needy and over eager because it's unattractive to a lot of girls. It also helps them protect themselves from being hurt later. Some guys may miss you or be hurting and will start dating someone else to help them move on and this generally doesn't last. He may just try to forget everything or repress feelings or he may have genuinely cared about you but is just able to move on quickly. Don't worry about him too much. I'd actually suggest avoiding him as much as possible because it would help you move on.0
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