He rushed a relationship with her but not with me?

So I was talking to this guy, he seemd to really like me. He also said that I was different from most girls that he's dated and that he admired me and that I was on a higher pedestal than them. We both agreed to taking things slow since I just got out of a relationship. He admire me for being more I not my books, family orientated while his ex was a hich school dropout and just lived at her mothers house doing nothing but partying. I asked him if he wanted to take things a step further and being more xclusive but he said he said he didn't want to hurt me... So I later just cut contact from him, I realized he was just hoeing around. Weeks later he's claiming a girl as his wife and she already has his named tatted on her... She's 21 with 2 kids living in the projects, I have nothing against young mothers but she isn't doing anything with her life. So why would he be quick to claim her but not me.

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  • Leave it be. Some people just click more than others and have better chemistry. He may have been right for you but he might have felt like you weren't right for him. Whatever it may be, don't worry about it. Move on and find someone who wants to be serious with you.

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  • It may be that he didn't feel he could ever make you happy or live up to what it would take to be with you. Like he said, he's used to dating girls of a lower caliber, and now he's back with a girl of a lower caliber. Not that it's wrong, it just may be the girls he feels most comfortable with, and most confident that he could make happy.

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  • I was in a similar situation. he dated the girl for like 3 months before karma kicked him in the butt. she turned out to be nothing like he thought, and so he ended it. Now he is trying to get back into my life again. My suggestion it to just move on though, he has his comfort zone, and its difficult to pull a guy out of it.

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