He is not that into you real live version!

I met this guy on a dating site we live in the same town and have lots in common. After talking for some time we decided to go out just to see how things go well we started sleeping together. Afterward he does not talk as much as he normally does but says he wants to see me again I don't know where this relationship stands if that's what it is I don't want to pressure him into anything for fear I chase him away I just wish it would go back to all the attention I was getting before. I text him but always feel that I am bugging him anymore. He still calls me his friend but also that he finds me attractive I don't know is this normal or is this his way of saying he is just not that into me? I would ask him where he stands but maybe I don't want to know the answer. If I want to bring him back or get him to open up what should I do.


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  • Dating sites are not the best place to meet guys of substance as in long term material most guys on there just want to get you into bed. Sure you might find one gem among the coals but you would have to look longer.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Tough to tell. Dating sites are pretty "iffy." Many will tell you it's just about sex, but that is not always the case. There are plenty of exceptions. Suggest you sit down and talk to him.

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  • You answered your own question, you're a friend, he got you into bed, summit has been conquered and now why go back. Sorry for the insulting language but I has to talk guy! He's not that into you, cut contact and meet someone who'll never let you go

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  • I think he just wanted to have sex with you and after he got what he wanted, he's like whatever, been there done that.

    It sucks, but trust me I've met so many jerks on dating sites. I'm a virgin and everything, not that I tell them, but I think most are on it for sex.

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