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You have just answered one of your own questions already, sweetie: "He betrayed me, ruined the trust I had for him.." That IN ITSELF is a good reason to NEVER trust him again...Allow me to enlighten you with the rest...He obviously has a pattern and track record of this, as you have found out, and on top of THIS, he sounds as though he is mixed up and confused, between you and his ex, and "baggage" to boot? I don't doubt that he does have feelings for you, however, if he is telling you he "was trying to keep mommy happy by rolling around in the hay with her", how do you really know he is serious about moving in with you and marrying you? He is probably trying to "keep you pacified too." He sounds as though he "wants his cake and eat it too." I am seeing nothing but headaches and heartaches for you with this guy in the future. Things are only going to get more complicated and worse as time goes on, believe me. You will constantly always be the "monkey in the middle", to sort of speak. And you may as well accept the fact that SHE is NOT going anywhere either, except to court with him for custody issues. I AM SURE I would not want to go through any of that. PERIOD. You deserve better than this. Move on and find some normalcy in your life, and let Frick and Frack continue their Peyton Place life---without you as the "porch monkey."