A little help here guys.
What Guys Said 1
He's a coward. He did something wrong and he's unwilling to take responsibility for it. If he really felt guilty, he'd be making the effort to work it out with the girl.
I understand that you still want to be with him, but you have to ask yourself if you can really still trust him at this point. In order to be with someone you need to be able to trust that they don't keep stuff like this from you and more importantly, that they have the balls, no, the common decency to break up with you when they no longer want to be with you.
Before anything can happen, he needs to show that he can be trusted and that he learns from his mistakes, and that takes time and effort.
What Girls Said 1
He cheated on this girl, lied to you and only told you because he got caught. But he's totalliy telling you the whole truth and nothing but the truth now? Don't do it to yourself, and stop reading those I'm so sorry I got caught messages!
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