My boyfriend and I work together. I had to take my 15 min break before I left so he told me he would wait for me. After my break was over, I looked for him and I couldn't find him. I called and texted him with no response. I waited and looked around for another 10 min and decided to walk home which is about a 10 min walk. It's really icy outside so I fell and slipped twice. I get home and he's already there. I said, "I thought you were waiting for me" He said, "I did. I waited 15 min for your break, then walked around looking for you, couldn't find you so I left." I felt really upset because I thought it was rude. I was visibly upset and now he's acting mad at me for some reason. Thoughts?
Am I being irrational?
What Guys Said 1
do you guys have cell phones?
i mean it sounds like a miscommunication or simply just a weird occurrence of two people looking for each other and meeting up.
I think it is natural to feel a little upset but I think you should try and just relax and see things from his perspective and realize that he wasn't trying to be rude but like you he couldn't find you.
maybe you two could get cell phones so you can text or call each other0
What Girls Said 1
You both did practically the same thing. Waited around and looked for each other.
You both left when you couldn't find each other.
No one has a reason to be angry.
Just use better communication next time.
Have a spot that you will always be after your break, so that way no one is looking for anybody.
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