Long story short we dated for 6months and the relationship was fun. Probably the most fun I had with a guy. I lived 2hours away and basically he ended it because of the long distance "I'd rather not have you at all then feel as shitty as I do when you leave" he did this before I told him I moving back to the area that he lives in. I told him and since then he texted me every single day. I finally moved back (a month later) and he stops texting me every day. We hung out a few times together with a group of friends or by ourselves. He flirts with me gives me a lot of mix signals. I asked if he still has feelings and he clearly states he does, "but things aren't the same anymore and I think we're better off as friends!" I need to accept this, I'm just frustrated as to if we both have feelings why not try to attempt it again. It feels like a "wrong timing thing" I should mention that he has difficulty letting people get close and I was the first in five years to get close to him. Can I get some opinions about this please and thank you ?
Ex boyfriend has feelings but wants to remain friends?
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He has told you "things aren't the same anymore and I think we're better off as friends"... that's a nice way of saying 'this relationship is not ever going to happen.' It could mean so many other things too. Basically, he's ending it and has demoted you to a buddy... but before I can give more I need details. Cpl questions: How is the sex with this guy, if any? Or did you both stop having sex? Who initiates the sex?1
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