So I do like this Guy and have for years and I'm probably not going to move on anytime soon but I haven't really considered the fact that he might not feel the same or that he could potentially get a girlfriend in the future. So I was wondering if you guys have any tips of how to move on ( so that if I HAVE to I can try) I mean obviouslyif you like the Guy enough moving on isn't easy.
So any advice?
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Have you tried initiating something with him? If you're just sitting back waiting and hoping something will happen, it most likely won't. You like him, you make the first move. That way, you're not sitting there wondering what if all the time. What if you did make a move and you two ended up being together forever? What if you didn't make a move but he actually does like you but you never took initiative so he just moved on? Also, you can find out for sure if he likes you or not when you talk to him. If he doesn't, you can move on and not always wonder in the back of your mind about those 'what ifs'.
As for moving on, yeah, it's NEVER easy. Heck, it's taken me SIX years to move on from a girl I used to have a huge crush on. I never made a move because of circumstances that would've made things very difficult for us. But I always held onto hope that something someday would have brought up closer together and made things possible.
Like dude below me said, it usually takes finding someone who really completes you to move on from someone you truly care for. Your best bet is to try to preoccupy your mind and time with other stuff as to block out thoughts of him. Before you know it, you won't be thinking of him at all and you may even find someone else you fall for.1
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