So my boyfriend goes to college and I am in the city. I don't know if our relationship is starting to drift apart. We've been together for a year and 7 months. Part of me thinks the connection we have is going away for example. We barely hung out for more then a hour yesterday and I asked to have him come over and I just wasn't in the mood for any fooling around. I'm assuming I've been putting that on hold for a while. And he's really anxious. I mean this is his last year and I've literally been excepted to his family. I just feel that sex isn't in the book like it was a while back. I'm losing days to hang out with him alone because he leaves Sunday. Besides we were making out and his breath was kinda bad. And he had the need to move his hands but anyway I don't know how this is playing out. I feel like I date the same type of guys I've dated in the past and they all like movies and he just can go on and on about it. Is it me who knows something has to happen?
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Meh. My belief is that most relationships will get boring and fizzle out like this until you find "The One"... I know finding "The One" is a silly notion to some people but I've seen it play peoples lives, where they find their "one" and things just work, indefinitely. I've also seen people have these relationships where the fire just dies out eventually. I don't think he's your "one".. but sure, even when you find "The One".. relationships require time and effort.0
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