What does "maybe" means from an ex boyfriend whom I invited over to havr dinner after breaking up 4 months ago? I've tried to win him back a couple of times but rejected me. I didn't contact him for a few weeks and tried again and this time he said "maybe". Did he miss me after all or am I juat facing another rejection again? I'm crazy about him.
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With my experience with obstinate men, his "maybe" now may mean "Let's see what happens."
He most likely does miss you but is too proud to admit it. Go slow with him, allowing him to eat out of your hand like a little sparrow. Being you have been apart for four months, he may feel some sort of pent up hostility, but of course, I don't know the whole story here, so cannot be sure. Also, could be playing hard to get.
Feel him out for a while longer, and when you think he is finally "nibbling," ask him again to---"break bread" with you. Good luck, sweetie.xx0
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