at first, he had no confidence, he had a bowl shape hair cut his mother cut, didn't know he needed glasses and couldn't even drive to a restaurant properly, he missed it by 3 times on the first date.
at first I thought he was adorable, but then the emotional abusive things him and his family say, are ridiculous. such as 'you didn't have to put down 1000$ for a wedding (he had proposed) he's kept a 400$ shirt I won at a bar. he eats off my food I forget in his car. then he said 'i don't want to hurt you' 3-4 weeks after I broke up with him. he's such a waste. he denies he did anything wrong, and he agrees with his sibling's friends who wrote emotionally abusive words. I am looking into other ways to take back my belongings and sue them for defamation etc.
I don't get why people actually talk to their ex. could you give me a reason?things are beyond repair because his family just stood there and smiled, while his friends emotionally abused me.
does anyone ever regret in hindsight, you could have moved on 6 months ago? I had written a note in my journal saying I wanted to split. things went downhill and he thinks still that he didn't do anything wrong. after I was yelled at, I fell ill twice. his family has not apologized and he just seems to take advantage of my trust. also controlling because I would hardly spend time with my family. and other disrespectful things he has done.
I'm just trying to express myself. Because it's hard to hold it in and be 'ok' with what's happened.