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hey I feel for you, I also broke up with my ex recently and taking time to heal myself, in healthy ways, yoga, meditation etc.
a month is a short time, maybe write things out, what exactly went wrong? were there some unfixable things? were there things you did or she did?
then there's another thing, what if she changed her phone number? I changed mine.
and 'giving her the satisfaction of knowing', that's not something that's more important than possibly saving something important. 3 years is a long time. other guys have asked me out, but I've turned down more than 30.
and then is there a likelihood she'd text you? it's difficult to say, in my mind, there are no set rules. just think carefully what failed in this relationship you had with her...before texting. there may be left over anger on both sides, that's why I haven't talked to my ex and probably won't. let there be peace, is what I say.