Have you ever contacted or purposefully never contacted an ex and why? Is there something wrong with me?
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Well I contacted my ex and she didn't respond. Thinking she might not have received it, I contacted her again in a different way, she didn't respond.
So eventually I gave up. Maybe you ignored him?
The majority of people think that communicating during a breakup is seen as weak and pointless.
I think of it as being very strong, you are brave enough to put yourself on the line and get hurt more, to try and fix the problem.
But most have others lined up immediately after the breakup, so they just see your contacting them as annoying. If this is the case, they probably lost their (strong) feelings for you and don't want to fix the problem. Thus ignore / don't contact you.
Maybe you are sending out a signal to them that they shouldn't contact you?1