Do I need to break up with him?
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Well, I can't tell you what to do, I can only provide my personal viewpoint. In my honest opinion, yes you should end things. It seems to me that he is only playing you. He wants to keep his dating prospects open yet keep you hanging around too.
Don't just blindly believe his words. Look at his actions, that speaks more truth than the lies that come out of his mouth. Think about it, if he truly cared for you like he claims he does, why would he want an open relationship? Now, I don't think there is anything wrong with open relationships if that's what works for the couple but obviously that is not what you want.
You should not be pressured to be a part of something that you don't really want. He seems like he has a lot of personal issues that he needs to work out. Maybe in the future after his divorce is finalized and you've had some time to yourselves, you could get back together or maybe you'll realize it wasn't meant to be. Either way, I personally think that you should save yourself from future heartache and just leave him now.
The thought of not being with him may be painful but him stringing you along and seeing other girls on the side will hurt you even more. Take some time to yourself and think about what you truly want. Of course, the decision is completely up to you. I hope this was somewhat helpful, good luck hun:)
Break it off. You don't want to be with someone who's not ready to be with you, no matter how much they say they love and care for you. Tell him that if he isn't ready to be exclusive, that he can look you up when he is.
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