I'm going through a lot lately and am wondering why I think about my ex boyfriend so much? I'm curious about him!
background info: I Broke it off, I miss him, then blocked him on Facebook. changed my contact information. almost 3 years in total.
A lot of negative stuff has been said, mostly by HIS friends-hence I ended it, he lost interest (took their side), I felt lonely and used. Sometimes my mind goes back to those thoughts, I start to cry
I was interested in another person, but that didn't work out. I really want to go out, have fun, meet new people (how?), not sure if I should try online dating, or take a break? my ex said he has began moved on, I got to let go before I date. I didn't really lose anyone because he became a different individual. I guess 7 weeks is too soon to get over something so long?
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You are still very much emotionally bonded to this man. Did you get intimate with him? Was he your "first"? Many women have no idea how much it means when she first gives her body to a man. Her heart, mind, soul, and spirit bond to his, it is designed to accentuate monogamy.
Even if he was not your first, you have a great deal of emotion invested with this guy. How do you start over... You don't. Not for a while, anyway. You need to heal... Seven weeks isn't enough, and going out and getting another boyfriend is only going to do more damage.
I think you should stop... slow down. Wait... Bide your time. Let the whirlwind of emotions that is in your mind and heart... just stop. You will get over it. You will be fine :)1