Before I was in a relationship with this guy, I was in a very abusive relationship. I got out of it somehow and I ended up with this guy. We had a fight, broke up, and he told me I deserved to be abused and raped. People are trying to tell me to talk to him, and try to get him back. But is he really worth it for saying something so harsh?
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I will give this jerk the benefit of the doubt, and say that it was said in the "heat of the moment"
BUT! No he is not worth getting back. I can understand saying something out of anger, but this goes way over and above that.
Anyone who would wish serious physical and mental harm against someone because that's what they "deserve." Has got a violent streak in them, that can come out when angered. In my mind he is unpredictable.
Don't make excuses for him. He is the one who "deserves" what he gets. In other words he doesn't deserve YOU.
Stay away from him.
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