I'm angry and upset Nd I have been this way for so long... He treats me so badly and I don't want or need him in my life... This pretty much sums up my feelings for him right now...
"I hate you and I don't deserve to be treated the way you treat me.
From the start I knew I shouldn't have dated you. I loved you and tried 1000x more then I should have had to, to stay with you and but now I just regret the two+ years of failure that we decided to call a 'relationship'.
I'm so done being treated second best to everything by you.
You did nothing to save our relationship, it has been all me keeping this afloat and I keep holding onto you hoping you would love me the way I loved you but you have just been drowning me with your lies, your bull shit promises and your self centred crap.
I thought to myself today that you ever asked me to
Marry you, I would say no because the idea of spending my life with you is horrible. Always fighting about weed, money and fact that you don't make me feel loved AT ALL.
Yes I hate being alone but I realized I'm way more alone when I'm with you then without, so what ever it is that we have, it is over.
If I do try to talk to you again, it won't be because I miss you or love you. Happy 3rd Valentine's day"
This is the 2nd out of the three Valentine's days we hVe had together that he hasn't done anything or even come to see me.. Like I know Valentine's day isn't a huge deal but I can't deal anymore.
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Wow, that's a lot of hurt wrapped into one shitty little text. Sounds like you are very hurt, spiteful and full of resentment. At this point I'd say you only have yourself to blame. This has been going on for 3 years and you're still there . . why? Because YOU CHOSE to stay! YOU CHOSE to put up with his crap behaviour and it appears that you are going to choose to sink to his level and send this message. I hope you don't. I hope you calmly go to his house and tell him it's over without being so mean about it. Not saying he deserves that, but you do. If you leave this way, you will only regret it eventually. Are you a kind caring person? Then be that person. This message does not show it. You don't have to be so horrid to let someone know you don't love them anymore and that it's over. Don't poison your heart, he's already done enough damage.