So I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago and I don't know how to get myself out there. I am trying not to date threw any friends ik from this group I hang out every Sunday. So like I what I am trying to do is I go to this bar that I know really well and I do see some cute guys but I am never one of those girls who goes up to them. I do the whole dress up cute and the flirting way I don't want to do online dating my sister tried that but she told me not the smartest place so how do you get guys to come to you when you know he is checking you out at the other end of the table?
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You're starting out right, but even if you don't want to approach guys first you gotta either give them the "green light" to approach you, or put yourself in a position where it is natural for them to come to you (right at the bar, on the dance floor if there is one, etc.). Let guys see you checking them out, give them a flirtatious smile, stuff like that.0