I met this guy at work (my supervisor) and at first I didn't pay much attention but after awhile he definitely caught my eye and I couldn't help it. Me and him are Very quiet and don't talk much. We are very similar and I think we would be good together. After talking and texting, I asked him out and he first said he had to help his family (which was true) then a couple weeks later I tried again and he said he didn't feel comfortable cause He my supervisor, but that we can still text and that was okay. That was about 3 months ago and I've been trying to get over him and I've done everything, but something is preventing me from moving on. We casually text a lot, and I still want to be friends at least. He is the only guy I have actually been able to physically visualize a future with (With previous guys I've been able to visualize my future or even wedding with).
I just don't know what to do next to move on. I was even tempted to switch jobs to figure out how it will end up.
I am 20 and he is 27, I don't care about the age but it is clear to me that he has other things to focus on that I don't have yet.
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I'm sorry, but I don't see how this would have to be over just because he is your supervisor. But then again, what do I know. The thing holding you back is your chemistry with him. You got along great with someone after some time so it's hard just to turn away from it, but if he doesn't want it too, you have to leave it. The best way to get over someone is to keep telling yourself there are plenty more out there, but that alone is not enough. You have to believe that there is someone else and eventually find him. Go eat with friends or something and have a good to distract you from him.
Hope I helped!