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it's really odd that you guys have been together for 8yrs and haven't lived together and only see each other every few weeks. to me this shows a lack of commitment.
It is also strange that you two would be trying to have a baby without living together or getting married. It seems like steps are being skipped.
I think the relationship needs to take a few steps forward before you really even try to get pregnant with his child. you two should be seeing each other more often, you should really consider whether or not marriage is the next step and at least whether or not you two should live together.
In America in most states that have common law marriage statutes the two of you would almost be considered married by the government. I say this to say that you two really should be coming to some point in deciding whether or not you are going to spend your lives together and take steps towards that goal0