I met this guy last year who I really liked. I didn't know him very long but he really convinced me that he was the one for me. I had just broken up with my ex so I ended things with the new guy, because I don't like rebound relationships.
I just found out, that a few months after I left, he got MARRIED. MARRIED. I kept texting him for a whole year because I thought he was just mad at me for ending it with him. When I called him a few months ago, as to why he didn't reply me back, he said he was "seeing someone" so he couldn't, and that the other person saw my texts. But I just found out that he lied, because he had gotten MARRIED!
I don't understand why someone would lie about that. The worst part is that I know he misses me too, and isn't that the same as cheating with your wife? The very worst part is that I just can't get over him even though I could date someone right now. Why does this happen?
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Why does it happen? Maybe because you dumped him, and he wasn't the sort of loser who sits around moping about stuff. He didn't let the grass grow under his feet. He went out, found a new girl, married her.
So far as I can see, he has exchanged some texts with you.
If you think that's cheating, then it's a good thing you guys broke up because you're CRAZY.
Mind you, I could have gathered that from the way you kept texting him for a YEAR despite not hearing from him.
That's practically a definition of crazy right there.
Missing someone, texting them.. these are not cheating. Only an idiot would think they were.3