Where do I start, I met this older guy (39yr) at school and we went out on a few dates. Eventually he told me he had a girlfriend and he wanted to leave her and be with me. we date on and off for three months and our only problem was his girl. He told me he love me and I was his girlfriend. he made me a lot of promises like marriage, kids, and moving in together. 2days after Valentine's day he said "she's not moving out and I'll leave her in two years, when you graduate." So I broke up with him. I talked to him two days later and he said he was going through a depression and I told him I still loved him, wanted him, and I was happy with him, and the only reason I broke up with him was that he has a girlfriend. I also told him I couldn't get back with him though and we could be lovers with no attachments, he said he couldn't do this because it wouldn't mean anything.
Also, Another guy asked me out and I told him about it and I told him I didn't like him, and the guy came to school and found me. my Ex saw us together and stared and now he won't look at me, or text me back. why won't he look or text me back or just be friends with benefits? I just want to be peaceful and have closer.:(...
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He isn't texting you back because you are broken up and because he saw you with someone else. Sometimes that's all people need to move on. Think about if the roles were reversed wouldn't you give up if you had been told someone had asked him out and you saw them together. He is giving up ana giving you a shot with the new guy. Give the new guy a chance. You dont want to be number two in anyone's life. You deserve and need to be number one. This guy isn't going to make you his number one he proved that. His girlfriend probably doesn't even know you exist.0