I guess I just don't get his behavior. I didn't push him into a relationship, or into having sex, or into being serious. I would tell him to go hang out with his friends, I never blew up his phone. I may have bought him a shirt and that freaked him out but I explained it was the same thing as buying movie tickets to me and didn't mean anything. I don't get why he'd be mean so I'd break up with him, say he hopes we get back together, try to give my ticket away, then say he wants to go with me, then get mad when I don't want to.
Guys if you can help me understand that'd be great. Sorry it's long!
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I think he has just basically freaked out over how fast things were going. Guys do this sometimes, the act out of fear. So he broke up with you. Now he is away from you, he clearly misses you and is trying to be friends by wanting you to go to the concert. You clearly have your head on straight though. If he was mean to you that early on in a relationship, I think it is best you sever all ties. From personal experience, I carried on with a relationship where the guy was just nasty and it only got worse. Took me an entire year to recover. I would say to him, just sell the ticket and move on.