Don't get me wrong, I enjoy talking to her, but as a friend, and that's it. I know she's lonely though, and that she needs a friend right now. I obviously know my gf would be pissed, because she would take me talking to her the wrong way, but I just feel bad for my ex. I look at her in a sort of sad and pathetic way, not to sound like I'm looking down on her or anything, but I just feel bad, like guilty if I were to just lock her out of communicating with her and leave her on her own.
By the same token, I don't want to have her neediness destroy my relationship with my current gf. I also don't want to be rude or impolite to my ex. After all, she was never mean or anything.
I just don't know what to do. I definitely need to set up a firm boundary, but in a way that won't hurt her feelings. Girls, I'm guessing you have more experience in this department. Any help?