My ex dumped me over having a photography with 2 guys, one who I did have history with. He didn't speak to me and blocked my number and off all social networking sites. He had already blocked me off Facebook while I was with him so he didn't have to see pictures off me with people and going out and things. He finished me and cut all contact until this past week. He's spoken to me twice at school, saying how much he loves me and I'm his life yet saying he can't get back with him because if I hurt him again like that, he'll be crushed. I saw him in a club and he started crying to me, saying he loves me and all that yet saying he still can't be with me? He unblocked my number and been messaging me saying Im the most gourgous girl he's laied eyes on, I've changed his life, he loves me, he can't cut me out of his life, whenever he sees me he wants to speak to me and I'm the best thing to ever happen to him. Yet stopped texting me again yet I see him at school all the time. He never used to hang in the canteen where I always am, because he used to hate it yet now we've broken up he seems to be there all the time. He's forever walking past me, looking at me yet doesn't speak just does an awkward/sad smile. I don't understand if he does care or he has no intention getting back with me and is playing me?
- He's playing meVote A
- He does care but doesn't want me backVote B
- I need to move onVote C
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The way this poor guy is acting, He is so very very hurt and distraught that he doesn't know whether he is coming or going, sweetie. He has taken You and Your "Photo friends" to heart in such a way, that he is holding it to his chest as though it were some sort of life support system, and he Will Not let go of it. It's as though he is making this whole "Trauma" his World now, sucking in every detail, every piece of Importance as though too it were his Food for thought every minute of the day.
Although he can't seem to forget you Nor the Damage that he thinks that was done to him in this detrimental way, he may always have love for you, but as far as anything else, unless he can get past it, you and he will never be this "Picture perfect" couple again. And even if you were to reunite tomorrow, he would moist likely have a Rough time in letting you live Anything down, making it his mission in life to make you pay for what wrong he feels you did to him. His grudges are too Intense, and he has become obsessed with these burning memories. He will never trust you again, and you will always have him watching you like an eagle, This Insecurity constantly haunting him inside like black coals on a grill.
It is most likely better for you to move on and let him wallow in hi sown misery. No matter what you could possibly say or do at this point, would make No difference. Instead, it would just add more fuel to his fire. xx0
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