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Getting to know him more made me see that he wasn't as perfect as i thought he was.1
Getting to know him more made me see that he wasn't as perfect as i thought he was.
It was a 10 year relationship, when she ended it.
I reckon I was over her by the end of that day and I even said so, and that life was bound to get better. In many ways, it was a relief.
Banging a few better women certainly helped to put her in the past. I've always found that to be helpful.
Time was my deciding factor. I suppose her being a bitch towards me also was a deciding factor.
you never really get over your last love till you find your next, what ever that may be.
Worked out a lot and didn't think about her
Her not wanting me
Sex, drugs and booze were the deciding factors.
There wasn't much of a deciding factor for me. It was a slow and gradual process. I know he wasn't right for me because he treated me badly. But I know that one thing that did make a huge difference was boycotting ever looking at his Facebook or Twitter. Suddenly I didn't think about him as much and the feelings faded.
I knew he didn't feel the same about me, so I got realistic and moved on.
I realized that he was hurting my self esteem and self worth badly because he was emotionally abusive and so the longer I held on the more I would hurt.
being with a for 4 years.. it is hard to get over him. I am still sort of (?) with him I guess. But, I am trying my hardest to move on and realize he isn't the one for me. It is really hard. I am fighting with myself everyday about it. He thinks, he can treat me how ever he wants and I will always be there waiting for him to come back and apologize. But, really for my own sanity and well being I need to let go and move on. The deciding factor for me: Is that things will NEVER change. And, he doesn't love me as much as I love him, and never will. It makes me think and realize, that I deserve better. And, you must be strong for yourself... My self esteem has been beat down.. so it is hard to move on because of that. Thoughts like I am not good enough for anyone else come to my mind. That is the exact reason why I must move on.
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