Most Helpful Girl
I can see a very insecure, unsure and mistrustful man who, although he still has deep feelings for you and wants you in his life, is just Not going to bend right now. With the problems you say you caused in your three year relationship, This has put a huge sour ball in his mouth, and he just wants to take things slow with you, and see where things end up. However, it may take time.
I believe, somehow, if you prove yourself to be a different sort of "relationship ready" girl, he may just cave in and bite the bullet, sweetie. You need to work with him for now, abide by his wishes, and if it is meant to be, and your love is strong enough, you both will find a way back into each other's arms full circle. xx