Most Helpful Girl
Only time can fix this. He stated he is not ready right now which means he is not right for you at this moment. You both want different things. As far as friendship, you need time away. Not sure how much but enough time to get into your own routine and happiness. Let him know that you will contact him when you are ready but right now you need time to take care of yourself. Continue to go out and dance and enjoy yourself. but right now it sounds like he is not ready to be your boyfriend... continue on with you life and maybe just maybe you guys might rekindle at a later date or just end up as good friends.