Is she trying to make me jealous? Or she really is desperate for other guy?
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I don't know your history with your ex, but asking for advice about another guy just doesn't sound like a "platonic" thing to do.. I mean, the only reason why I would bring up another guy so quickly is if I was trying to make my ex jealous. I don't want to make you read too much into it, but her actions seem to say that she either 1) doesn't care about your feelings or 2) cares about making you jealous, and neither of those are very good.
If I were you, I would continue "no contact" and simply not respond to her questions about the other guy. If she's trying to get you riled up by making you jealous, she will quickly get discouraged when you don't respond. Being the bigger person is hard at first, but it's so much better in the long run.